Riyad as-Salihin: The Book of Miscellany – Hadith No. 1513 — Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (ﷺ) said… (Hadith No. 1513)

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The upper hand is better than the lower one (i.e., the spending hand is better than the receiving hand); and begin (charity) with those who are under your care; and the best charity is that which given out of surplus; and he who asks (Allah) to help him abstain from the unlawful and the forbidden, Allah will fulfill his wish; and he who seeks self-sufficiency will be made self-sufficient by Allah"..

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Reference: Riyad as-Salihin, The Book of Miscellany, Hadith No. 1513